High-Five Friday

Five things that made me smile/laugh/happy this week:

1. Yesterday when I checked the mail, it was all holiday cards.

2. First snowboarding day trip of the season last weekend. We did our favorite weekend routine: Pack the car the night before, roll out of bed at 5:30am, get on the road by 6. Get to the ski resort around 7:30, have coffee and breakfast, be at the lifts first thing when they open. Snowboard until we’re pooped, head home early afternoon, and beat the traffic. It was an excellent day of snowboarding–3 inches of snow the night before, and a light snowfall while we were out. It stayed around 30 degrees so it wasn’t too cold. And I hardly fell at all.

3. I spent most of Sunday baking holiday cookies while snow fell outside and holiday tunes played in the background.

4. We went out to dinner with friends and their toddler-age daughter kept pointing urgently down the aisle whenever Santa was mentioned, like she thought he was in Chili’s with us. We finally realized that she was pointing at an elderly woman who sat with her back to us and had white hair and wore a red sweatshirt with a white collar sticking out. She also made me laugh with this crazy little dance she’d break into at random moments. (Our friends’ daughter, not the elderly Santa-look-alike woman.) And another funny: Our friend the father asked her, “Who’s the man, Sammie?” clearly expecting her to reply “Daddy!” but instead she gleefully tapped Big Bird on her placemat. And also, the look of both amazement and agreement on her face when she and I were looking out the restaurant window at the cars in the parking lot, and I told her that the blue car was probably Cookie Monster’s because they are both blue. Kid time is always a highlight of my week.

5. Christmas is next week and I’m traveling home. Knowing that I will be getting a good dose of family-time and also quality time with my California cats is definitely smile-worthy.

High-Five Friday

Five things that made me happy this week:

1. Snow, glorious snow. There’s nothing that will snap you into the holiday spirit faster than decorating the Christmas tree with a blanket of snow outside. The recent snowfall also means it’s quite possible I’ll be snowboarding this weekend!

2. Online shopping. Almost done with my gift list. Should I be worried that I have my credit card info memorized now?

3. Tim Holtz 12 tags of Christmas. I am totally hooked on this. His explanations combined with the photos make the projects really easy to follow. And I’m brimming with ideas I want to try now. The only downside is squeezing in the time. And it’s a nice blog to look at too, which does make a difference for me. How does he do that rough black frame around the photos, I wonder? I really like how that looks. The photo below is from his blog. It’s my favorite of the tags so far.

4. Rediscovering our holiday decorations. I love unpacking the ornaments and other holiday decorations we’ve accumulated over the years. Last night I was unwrapping ornaments and chattering to my husband and showing him what I’d uncovered: “Look at this one! This one’s so cute. Do you remember this? This is one of my favorites. . .” And he remarked, “This is almost as much fun as opening presents for you, isn’t it?” And you know, it really is. Perhaps because I have a lousy memory and so I’ve truly forgotten a lot of what’s in those plastic storage bins. Two of my favorite holiday tchotchkes that I had forgotten about are pictured above–the wind-up snowman and Santa.

5. Google Reader. I recently discovered this and RSS feeds–I know, I know, I’m late to the party here. I’d heard mention of this stuff before, but it all sounded intimidatingly technical to me. But it’s super easy to figure out, and it is so cool to have all the blogs I like to follow in one place. And as a result of how cool and easy it is, I now have like, twice as many blogs that I’m following than before. But I think I’m spending less time blog reading because with everything in one place, it’s easy to scan what’s new and read only the updates that are pertinent or interesting to me. If anyone else has been intimidated by the RSS/newsfeed/axom mumbo jumbo, don’t be. (And you don’t have to use Google. There are other readers available that probably work the same way, but Google is the only one I’m familiar with.) Before, I had a variety of blogs and websites bookmarked and sorted into various folders. I also had direct links to the blogs I visit most frequently on my Google homepage. It was a decent organizational system, but Google Reader vastly improves on it. Now it’s essentially like an email inbox but limited to the RSS feeds of my choice. I only need to visit one place and now I can see all the blogs I’m following and which ones have been recently updated. I can read the blogs from there or click on a link to take me to the original site. And you can subscribe to blogs even if they don’t have a little “Subscribe” link on their page. Or at least many blogs–I have come across a few that I’d like to add to my reader but can’t. If you look in the url window of the blog you want to subscribe to and you see a little orange square with three white swoops in it, that’s the RSS icon and you can click on that and follow the steps and whallah! Added to your Reader in mere seconds. And once in your Reader you can sort your blogs into different folders to keep them categorized or rename the blog feed. Can you tell that I’m a total nerd over organizational tools?

Happy Friday!

December Already?

Last Saturday, this is what we woke up to. Beautiful way to head into the month of December don’t you think? (Nevermind that today, in the actual month of December, it was in the high 60s and the snow has all melted.) Snowy days are great for bundling up in sweats and slippers, holing up in my office with a steaming hot mocha, and writing writing writing. I’d like to say that’s how I spent this last snowy Saturday, but it’s not. My brother and family were still visiting in the morning and after we saw them off, there was laundry, vacuuming up the feathers from decorating the dog, a general straightening of the house, and I finished reading my friend’s novel in progress for our writer’s meeting on Sunday.

Ace, proud of his feathers
I can’t believe the end of the year is swiftly approaching. Only one more month to check things off my yearly Want-To-Do list. I’ve accepted that many of those things aren’t going to happen this year. (Paint the kitchen cabinets? Not going to happen. Finish the basement? No way. Go to an outdoor movie in Boulder or at Red Rocks? Missed out on that for the year.) Onto the 2009 list they will go. But there is one thing I really hope I can accomplish by the year’s end—finish the revisions on my novel. Over on Cuppa Jolie, a new blog I recently found (via Laini Taylor’s Grow Wings blog), she was talking about setting goals for December in order to stay productive through all the holiday hubbub. I volunteered my goal of finishing my revisions and I have to say it felt good to vocalize it. Throw it out there into the ether as it may be. If anyone in either of my writing groups is reading this, they will be rolling their eyes right about now because I’ve vocalized my goal of finishing my revisions to them for quite awhile now. So stating it in a different format to a different audience isn’t really what’s going to make the difference. I know that. It’s up to me and only me. Prioritizing writing time over other things (like laundry and vacuuming up feathers from decorating the dog), stocking up on bum glue to aid in keeping that butt in chair, and banging on the keys until the revisions are finished. That’s easier said than practiced though, but I’m working on it, and for some reason vocalizing it to old writing friends and new ones too helps keeps me focused on the goal and not tempted by the myriad of distractions that are out there.

“And that’s really the most important part of the reservation. . .”

Watch this video and substitute the word “car” with “turkey”. This is what happened when my husband and I went to the grocery store Thanksgiving morning to pick up the fresh turkey we’d reserved the week before.

There is a happy ending to the story because they ended up giving us a free (frozen) turkey to make up for their mistake. Despite the turkey mishap, it was a very enjoyable Thanksgiving holiday. Hope it was for everyone else too!

David Wroblewski Event

Saturday night I went to see David Wroblewski speak at an event hosted by Lighthouse Writers Workshop. Lighthouse Writers is a great writing organization located here in Denver. Along with hosting writer events like this one on a regular basis, they also offer a wide range of classes and workshops. I’ve taken three workshops from them in the past (two short story and one novel) and highly recommend them. They are run essentially the same way as my MFA program workshops and the creative writing workshops I took as an undergrad. Lighthouse Writers’ classes are first come first served until they fill up. (There are prerequisites for the advanced classes.) And as with any workshop, it’s going to vary a bit depending on the instructor and the people who make up the class.

David Wroblewski is the author of The Story of Edgar Sawtelle, a book that has been getting a lot of praise and recognition from booksellers, prominent authors like Richard Russo and Stephen King, the New York Times bestseller list, and this lady named Oprah. And this is his first novel too, which is just mind-boggling. To have the New York Times and Oprah greet you with open arms on the other side of publishing your book? That is an incredibly rare occurrence for well-seasoned authors, let alone a debut novelist.

So David Wroblewski is a local author and when I heard the Lighthouse Writers were sponsoring an event with him, I couldn’t pass that up. I really wanted to have the book finished beforehand because they warned there might be spoilers, but I didn’t get enough of a head start on my reading. And there were spoilers too—a fairly significant one in fact. Even though I was forewarned, I was irritated about that spoiler in particular because it came when a woman in the audience was asking David Wroblewski a question and the spoiler-part was 100% unnecessary in the question she was asking. She even posed her question first and then blurted out the bit of information after she stated her question. It was like this (completely made up example, not a spoiler): Why did you decide to set this story in Wisconsin? Edgar turns into a werewolf!

I’m guessing she was one of those kids in school that was always blurting out answers just to make sure everyone else knew that she knew them.

Even though I’m griping here, it really was a wonderful event. David Wroblewski is great. He was humble and gracious, insightful and funny, and seemed truly passionate about his work—both writing and his work as a software engineer. I suppose it shouldn’t matter, but so few writers rise to the ranks of bestselling, award-winning success, and I’m one of those people who always wants the nice guys to come out on top, so it really was an extra bonus for me that I liked him as much as I did, in addition to liking his book.

He read aloud the scene in the book that is written in second person. It’s the only scene written in second person and he said when he sent the first draft to his editor he thought for sure that scene would be cut because it was such a risk, craft-wise. But the editor didn’t have a problem with it.

Another interesting tidbit about that particular scene is that it was at that point in writing the first draft that he got blocked on the book for a year and a half. Part of the reason for his getting blocked was that he had started a new job. But creatively (he realized this after the year and a half had gone by) he was struggling because he’d initially written the book in first person and was finding himself really limited by it. So he went back to the beginning and rewrote the book in third person and was able to move on.

In responding to a question about craft—I believe it was someone asking why he decided to write that scene in second—his answer was in part, “You know, I’m a first timer at this. I don’t necessarily know what I’m doing.” Which I just loved because it’s so honest. He’s in a position where he could probably get away with putting on airs about his writing. But the honesty is a lot more helpful to a fellow writer. It resonates. It’s encouraging to hear someone who’s reached this high point in their career say that they don’t know what they’re doing. Clearly he does, his book demonstrates that, but it’s a feeling that I think is quite common among writers when we’re sitting by ourselves day after day, translating this story from our imagination to paper (or computer screen) not knowing if we’re headed toward Oprah and the New York Times, or a stack of rejection letters that reaches our nose, or someplace in the middle. I think it’s common for us writers to feel in over our heads and to ask ourselves over and over and over: What the heck am I doing? Will I ever pull this off? And that tiny obnoxious voice whispers to you, “If you’re worried you can’t do this, you probably can’t.” The trick is to flick that obnoxious speaker back to the dark recesses of your mind, because worrying that you can’t accomplish something is a whole lot different than actually not being able to accomplish something. But it’s a long and lonely road writing a book, so there’s plenty of time for that obnoxious speaker to claw their way out of the dark recesses of your mind into the forefront and try to derail you once again.

So it’s incredibly gratifying to hear someone who’s come out on the other side successfully echo your same writing experiences and concerns. He went on to say writing is often intuitive, and he also made a point of talking about how he thinks any creative endeavor has to be in part exploratory and experimental, and there were a lot of ideas or things that he had tried throughout the ten years of writing this book that had fallen by the wayside and he’d since forgotten about them.

I could go on with more thoughts on David Wroblewski and what he had to say about writing, but thinking about his presentation has me itching to get back to my own novel-in-progress now. Happy writing!